wHat's the point?

What's the point? Why does your message matter?

What exactly is the point of sharing my message? This may be a question you ask yourself What difference will my word or message make in this noisy world? In a world where we are bombarded by negative messages but also the same positive messages. What difference will my voice, my opinion really make? How am I really making a difference.

If you are asking yourself these questions, you are not alone! I am asking these questions all the time, and so are some of my friends. I can tell that they also feel they do not have the power to make changes to people’s lives. Feeling powerless, or feeling that you or your message doesn’t matter is hard. What you are really saying is that you do not value yourself. You do not value your worth as a human being and the amazingness you bring to the world.

This is the ego at play. The ego is devising all sorts of ways to keep us feeling small, to keep us from being conscious and spreading the our word. Even if the word is already said many times  by different people, in different forms, shapes and sizes, your word still matters - only you can say it in your way and reach the people that match your energetic vibration. I may say this message and it will not resonate with some people, yet it may resonate with others, people that do need to hear this message.

You may share the same message in your own way, and this may just be what that person needed to hear. Or perhaps this person has listened to many messages already and this has planted a seed in their mind. Perhaps your message may make that difference to them to change something they were unable or unwilling to change. YOU MATTER. An important message. Your unique talents , abilities and quirks matter. They make you, you. They make you unique… in a world of conformity, it’s easy to feel the need to blend in and not stand out, to not be unique and get lost in a world of average. A world caught up in negativity, mundane 9-5 lifestyle. Even some non 9-5 people are still caught up in living a conformed life. They deeply feel they do not have power over themselves, and others with their words or messages. That they do not matter.

It’s time to recognize that we have greatness within, to end these self-defeating thoughts and questions and go after our greatness. Telling ourselves why we are deserving of greatness and how other people need to hear our messages. We must learn to ask ourselves better questions. 

What will be great if we share our message with others? It may help them get the courage to speak up in abusive relationships, it may make them think differently about themselves and see themselves more positive; it may show that they are not alone in this situation, that other people also have felt their way and have found a way out of internal struggles.

You may ask yourself why does my message matter? Only you can bring your unique gifts and talents to the world , to share them with other people. No one else has exactly the same experiences that you have in your life, as such your viewpoint will always be unique. Your overall message may be the same, but your viewpoints will be unique, your stories will be unique, your leanings will be unique. 


It’s necessary to share your specific story as they will resonate with people that have a similar perspective on life, and that it may change their life for the better.

If you hold back your story, someone may not make the change because you were playing small, because you were afraid to be big and bold, because you told yourself to stay small, that you did not matter.

So what's the point? 

The point is this: You do matter. You are valuable .  Your story and style matters. Go out and share it. Today.